![]() This man is the lesson i never needed to learn.I didn't know what an evil man he was until 2years ago fully, although after a year i knew there was something a miss,but like many others i blamed myself for the treatment i was recieving daily,as that's what i had drilled into me. Im literally living this nightmare and have been for the past 9 years or more. Others may not turn to substance abuse but may end up suffering fatal medical issues as a result of the abuse alone, which may potentially lead to death a result of pernicious abuse.īansheeintheeyesmalone76 on July 02, 2020: This way they can use it not only as a form of escapism but also to slowly kill themselves so that they can reach the point that they have to suffer the abuse no longer. Some victims may ultimately decide to continue to pump as much alcohol or drugs into their system as they can. For this reason, many victims believe they have no choice but to continue suffering the abuse and may feel that the damage is already done. Additionally, they don't want others to be left picking up the pieces they left behind because they do feel real true genuine empathy. The victim knows that even if they did escape the situation the abuser would probably continue to ruin the rest of their life or future relationships anyway and, in many cases, after the partner has left, the abuser continues to drive them crazy gradually destroying their reputation, their life and their soul-sometimes referred to as "soul murder."Įventually, the victim may be left feeling suicidal but fearful that others would see it as a selfish act. The process is so subliminal and it happens so gradually that it could take place over the course of ten or twenty or even thirty years or more. The victim has been made to feel that they are nothing in this world they now have nothing, they now have no meaning and nowhere to go and nobody wants them anymore except for the narcissistic/sociopathic abuser, who can now use the victim as their emotional/mental slave. The abuser never quits abusing and the victim's self-esteem gets worn down to the core until they go through a process of devaluation, dehumanization and dissociation. They will only exacerbate the situation in the long run. That's not to say that the drugs will either prevent it from happening or even slow the process down-they won't. The stress they are forced to endure can be so severe that if they don't find some kind of release in order to feel a sense of escape, they continue to build up with overwhelming tension, anxiety, emotional suffering and may develop an overactive mind, which can literally drive them crazy-post traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) can soon follow. In many cases, the victim may turn to drugs or alcohol as a means of escape. Not only that, they will do it with the person the victim suspects the least.time and time again.
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